Friends are supposed to be the support network you turn to in times of need. But what if they turn into the people that cause the upset you need support through?
Last night I received a txt from a friend that if she had had all the facts she would not have sent, and beings she didnt have all the facts uspet me more because it could have potentially been bad news.
It was of course regarding the previously mentioned pull and push boy! And the fact he was spotted out on a date.
My friend was not to know I had advised pull and push boy to push off for good over a week ago. So the manner in which this txt came through, smug, condicending and almost overjoyed at delivering the said news was nothing short of hurtful.
I couldnt care less about pull and push boy, as I dont spend time dating men who arent quite sure if they want to date me or not, but I do care that my "friend" thought we were dating and chose to tell me in the way that she did that apparently we werent!
I cant understand a "friend" who would find it funny to deliver possible bad news. She apparently thought we were a couple! So is that really the way you would tell a friend that you have seen their "boyfriend" on a date with someone else?
I have made many excuses over the years for her behaviour towards me, her bullying, her cattiness, her put downs, and everything else inbetween. We have been friends since school and its "just how she is" but recently the excuses arent even washing with me.
Waking up sad over a boy is unfortunately sometimes normal when dating....you meet a lot of frogs on the way to the prince, but waking up sad over a friends behaviour? Is not ok.x
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