Standards

So when you hit your 30's and there is still no prince charming in sight do you have to start thinking about your standards?

I mean do you have too many? Are you looking for such a specific person to spend your life with its impossible to find the right one?! (or ones!)

But...should you lower your standards?! I mean what you want from a relationship is what you want. So why should you lower your standards? Settle.

Standards such as a black card holding, multi property, aston martin driving, city banker, who is tall, dark and handsome with no baggage is something that could be taken down a notch! Or fifty!

But standards such as someone who is independence, has their own place (whether its bought or rented) drives, has a good job, is ambitious I think is ok.

I mean, you cant help you fall in love with. You could fall in love with a vet, a bar tender, a bin disposal worker.....the list is endless! If you disregard these because of what they do....well then perhaps the standards should be dropped? If the feelings are genuine.

If its a case of you wouldnt have anything in common because of the job etc then again thats a valid reason.

I feel as an independent woman with her own place, good job, who is independent, and has good friends etc that I can expect the same from a partner. And that isnt being "too choosy"